Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Married to Christ

An interesting article from http://www.ucg.org/ about Marriage in God’s view. This follows this post about Jesus as God, not just a good prophet. For a free magazine subscription or to get the book shown for free click HERE! or call 1-888-886-8632.







article by Peter Eddington





Having attended several weddings already this year, I was reminded of what marriage between a man and a woman pictures—it’s a vision of Christ and the Church.







Source: Stock.Xchng/segundoIt’s summer here in the Northern Hemisphere—and love is in the air with numerous wedding celebrations going on!



Having attended several weddings already this year, I was reminded of what marriage between a man and a woman pictures—it’s a vision of Christ and the Church.



It’s amazing to consider: Our human marriages are a type of Christ and the Church. A marriage between a man and a woman is something that is designed and ordained by God. No man or civil government can change that marriage vow into some other kind of relationship—than that between a male and a female!



“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the Church” (Ephesians 5:31-32 [31] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

[32] This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.





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As revealed in Revelation 19, at Christ’s return those who are betrothed to Him will then go through a wedding celebration. Glorified as spirit beings they will be made perfect and will never sin again—having God’s laws ingrained perfectly into their character—continuing in unbroken oneness with Jesus Christ thereafter.



Our Awesome Destiny

This is our destiny, this is our inheritance! This is the culmination and fullness of the New Covenant marriage—and God intends to offer this marriage relationship to all human beings—to all who will ultimately agree to surrender themselves to Him and be spiritually transformed.



When Jesus returns and joins into the fullness of marriage with His Church, He will then extend His engagement proposal to all mankind alive at that time. And as all of mankind is offered this relationship, and as a great majority of humans accept it, peace will extend to encompass the earth—all under the rule of Christ and His perfected saints.



We are fast approaching the Feast of Trumpets and the Day of Atonement, to be followed by the Feast of Tabernacles. More than any other time of year we thus focus on Jesus’ return to wed His bride. At the sound of the seventh trumpet we will be raised to spirit life, and as Jesus’ millennial rule unfolds across our planet, millions and millions of human beings will be offered salvation, and they too will join the family of God.



When two people exchange wedding vows, they make a lifelong commitment. Likewise, our commitment to God should not be taken lightly or maintained only when we feel like it. God does not advocate only occasional bursts of loyalty and obedience to Him whenever it is convenient for us.



Remember Your Name

We are betrothed to Jesus Christ, and He will remember us each by name. In the book Actions Speak Louder Than Verbs Herb Miller recounts an illustration from World War II:



“While visiting in Leningrad, a woman heard the story of 900,000 people who perished in the long siege of Leningrad during World War II. At one point they were trying to save the children from both the Nazis and starvation—so they placed them on trucks to cross a frozen lake to safer locations. Many of the mothers, sure that they would never see their children again, yelled to them as they got on the trucks, “Remember your name. Remember your name” (Herb Miller. Actions Speak Louder Than Verbs. Nashville: Abingdon Press, 1989, p. 103).



When baptized, we commit ourselves to faithfully remember who we are. We are now betrothed to Christ. We are now God’s children. We show our commitment of who we are by living our lives in such a way that we bear fruit in keeping with repentance.



If we continue to show the fruits of God’s way, being led by the Holy Spirit, God will never forget who we are. He entered into a special covenant with us at baptism. And thus, we work diligently to follow Him in all that we do. “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? [Not very likely!] Though she may forget, I will not forget you!” says God (Isaiah 49:15Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee.



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God will never leave us or forsake us. He will remember our name. And, as long as we are genuinely repentant, striving to put sin out of our life, we can be assured of our marriage with the Lamb of God upon His return.



As we approach the next season of Holy Days, let’s be reminded to keep up our end of the marriage covenant—and prepare to be a spirit being in God’s family.

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Friday, June 8, 2012

Book Review - The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts

An interesting article from http://www.ucg.org/ about a marriage book. This follows this previous post about another marriage book. For a free magazine subscription or to get this book for free click HERE! or call 1-888-886-8632

Book Review - The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts


 This book presents a practical strategy for increasing the love in your relationship.



Book Information





Author

Gary D. Chapman



Publisher

Northfield Publishing



Publication Date

2009-12-17



ISBN

0802473156



Recommendation

jonathanjmagee recommends this book.



Paperback, 208 pagesActs of service, physical touch, gift giving, words of affirmation, and quality time, are all ways you can feel love or express your love to others. One of these you enjoy more than others. It’s the way you prefer to show love or have it shown to you. It’s your primary “love language”. Is it the same love language as your spouse? If it’s not you may be think you are showing love to the other person but they just aren’t speaking your love language. They may not be feeling your love.



The Five Love Languages explains how people communicate love in different ways, and shows the wonderful things that happen when men and women learn to speak each other's language. Chapters are categorized by love language and each one ends with simple steps to express a specific language to your spouse and guide your marriage in the right direction.



Love is an action not just a feeling. This book presents a practical strategy for increasing love in your relationship.



Here is a free assessment to find out your love language is:



http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/







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Thursday, June 7, 2012

Book Review - Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs

An interesting article from http://www.ucg.org/ about a marriage book. This follows this post about school graduation.  For a free magazine subscription or to get this book for free click HERE! or call 1-888-886-8632.



 Understanding and implementing unconditional love and unconditional respect can reap the benefits of marriage that God intended.



Book Information





Author

Emerson Eggerichs



Publisher

Thomas Nelson



Publication Date

2004-09-07



ISBN

1591451876



Recommendation

jonathanjmagee recommends this book.



Hardcover, 324 pagesHusbands appreciate being respected more than loved and wives appreciate love more than respect. Don't believe it? Ask your spouse. It may surprising, but this seems to be true of most couples.



Based upon Ephesians 5:33Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.



See All... and extensive biblical and psychological research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs reveals the power of unconditional love and unconditional respect and how husbands and wives can change their reach a new level in their relationship.



Love & Respect explains the key to understanding and cracking the communication code between husband and wife. It involves understanding one thing: that unconditional respect is as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. It's the secret to marriage that every couple seeks, and yet few couples ever find.



Whether you and your mate are attempting a fresh start or improving on an already healthy marriage. It really seems as though this book's message can help.



I think this book along with The Five Love Languages really help one understand how to understand and how to love your mate on much deeper level.



I think this book is special in that seems like it can even help those marriages where only one person is willing to read the book and follow it's advice. Although its much harder, this books gives great practical advice to nurture your partner back into a more healthy godly relationship.



If you are married or soon to be, I strongly recommend this book.







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Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Book Review - Real Marriage: The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together

An interesting article from http://www.ucg.org/ about a marriage book. This follows this post about school graduation.  For a free magazine subscription or to get this book for free click HERE! or call 1-888-886-8632.

Book Review - Real Marriage: The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together


A raw look at how to make marriages better.



Book Information

Author

Grace Driscoll

Publisher

Thomas Nelson

Publication Date

2012-01-03

ISBN

140020383X



Recommendation

jonathanjmagee recommends this in some cases. See below.



Hardcover, 272 pagesIt takes a look at what messes up marriages, so you can turn your marriage into a good one. It borrows concepts from great marriage communication books like, Love & Respect, and The 5 Love Languages. The book tackles honesty, building your friendship with your spouse, life planning, sex (what a christian husband and wife can or can't do), wisdom, and biblical roles in marriage. In this book we see marriage as the beautiful gift that God intended it to be.







The authors (a pastor and his wife) are honest and vulnerable and tackle problems and questions with biblical based answers. The only problem is their false theology (trinity) occasionally works it's way in to explanations. On 3 occasions I remember the trinity being mentioned. Also, one of the answers to a question was answered by "explaining" how the Law was done away with. It was a big let down, but for me, it didn't spoil the all of the other lessons of the book. I found the vast majority of the book to be very helpful in understanding what to expect and how to tackle problems in marriage.



This book feels like a conversation with a older friend who's learned a few things about marriage and passing on advice. Some of it is good some of it is a bit off base. Overall, I feel I learned from this book. I can't fully recommend this book, however, because of the occasional false theology.







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